Dec 20, 2012

Feelings are fragile and can be indissoluble at times....



Undoubtedly, feelings are fragile and are hurt even when they’re not supposed to. Feelings should never be left lying around heartless persons to carelessly torn them with some reckless word or deed. 


Indeed, hurt feelings heal but only to a certain extent, in fact, they heal only to the extent that one can guarantee that the same harm will not be inflicted again......but 100% healing cannot be done...there will be scare, which will never be erased..

When the expression of sorry is actually communicated to the brain, it can convince feelings, considering the apology is sincere and that the harm will not be repeated in future and that the remorse is genuine, the emotional pain can subside.....but will take some more time than you expect....

Also, it is better not to apologize rather that doing a fake apology for hurting someone’s feelings because the bearer begins to nurture a reservoir of ache and build a wall around their own emotions with layers upon layers of resentment….feelings are fragile....and it can be indissoluble if it is too late...also apologizes should correlate to change in behavior. 

Yours....
Dated 20 December 2012